Congratulations! If you are reading this, you made it to 2020. I am happy and grateful for 2019. I would describe my 2019 as a year of adventure, self awareness, and healing. I am claiming 2020 to be my year of abundance in all areas of my life, a year of happiness and growth. As … Continue reading WHAT TO LET GO IN 2020
Don’t piss me off and then tell me to calm down!!!
very time I was called on in class, I was sure that I was about to embarrass myself. Every time I took a test, I was sure that it had gone badly. And every time I didn’t embarrass myself — or even excelled — I believed that I had fooled everyone yet again. One day soon, the jig would be up … This phenomenon of capable people being plagued by self-doubt has a name — the impostorsyndrome. Both men and women are susceptible to the impostor syndrome, but women tend to experience it more intensely and be more limited by it.
It's been a good year so far. Time really flies. We are already on the first day of July. This year has been an exciting one for me. My good days have been more than bad days. The bad days were not so crazy. I haven't ticked off my year's resolutions but we are making … Continue reading WHEEL OF LIFE
Last weekend I decided to do something I wouldn't usually do. First was to attend an event where I was invited but I didn't know anyone in person, the second was to go and zip line at Kereita Forest with strangers. Zip lining has been on my bucket list for so long , so when … Continue reading KEREITA FOREST ZIPLINING ADVENTURE
History will be kind to me, for I intend to write it. Winston Churchill
I want to look you in the eye and explain my past I want to be mad at you, for not seeing the pain Or rather for seeing and choosing to ignore. I want to look you in the eye and explain the haunting images But I've got skin to cover all my thoughts and pain.
Let me tell you a story, A tale of how I died
Maybe what hurts me the most is me.
My name is Malika. A name I hated back then because it means funeral where I was brought up and my peers loved to remind me that I am " funeral". My Darling father loved to remind me that the meaning of my name is winner. I remember vaguely him saying the word " … Continue reading WHO AM I ?